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By Princess Bethany

Ten Kids

 

 

Suppose you had 10 kids. Then suppose they divided themselves into 2, 3, or 4 little groups who played together well within their group. Then suppose you are this loving and kind parent who decides to load up all the kids in the mini-van and go out for a nice drive in the country ending in a splendid picnic.

Shortly after you pull out of your driveway, the kids begin to squabble. This group says "No! We won't go if they go!" Since you are close to home still, you stop the car and let them out admonishing them to stay out of trouble, mind the neighbor who has agreed to watch them, and you drive off unhappy because you no longer have a complete family with you. Still you have 10 kids but these 3 or 4 don't want to play nice with the others.

You proceed on down the road and very soon you hear a battle going on in the back seat. Your much-loved children look as if they are trying to kill one another. So you stop the car and try to stop the battle.

One child has a bloody nose and another a black eye. One is crying as if the world had come to an end. Still there are a couple of kids who seem oblivious to all the chaos and are happily playing Crazy Eights. Who do you love the most? Whose side will you take? If you are a loving parent, you chose to love them all.

You help the one with the bloody nose. You apply ice to the black eye. You comfort the one who is crying. You smile at those who are playing Crazy Eights. You load them all up again and head for home stopping to pick up those who choose to not go. And then you have the sudden inspiration to go out for ice cream. The kids are all loaded already and without a word you turn the car around and head for your favorite ice cream place. But little Beth is allergic to milk and can't have ice cream so you give her sorbet and little Angel can't have Red dye #7 so you give her that special cookie she likes all the while still hearing you beloved children arguing and fussing about how it is not fair because he got a bigger scoop and she dropped hers when that one pushed. Do you start to give your children away now?

No! You take them all home and tuck them into their beds with each one getting a good night kiss and a prayer for sweet dreams entrusting them to angels to watch over them. You know that you love all of them and they are all your kids. You can't take sides because each is a different age and has different needs. And then you stop for moment and thank God for all your 10 children because you can't imagine your life without even one troublesome child. They all are blessings, whom you love. You don't take sides but love them all equally! But you will be glad when they are grown and can appreciate each other.

And that my friend is what God does with us. He simply loves us knowing that one day we will learn to love each other too!

 

Note: If you are still confused about how a gay Christian can feel they are 'right' with God I encourage you to read the section of the web site entitled "Gay and Christian? YES!"

 

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